Wednesday, April 11, 2012

D's SA...

D went for his test today.  He was such a trooper about it.  I know it was tough for him to go and do this, but I am so proud of him for following through.  He did tell me that he was only in there for about 2 minutes before the nurses started knocking!  I hope he didn't have stage fright...I didn't ask!  He asked me what would happen if it was him.  I told him that it didn't matter who it was, we would work through it.  I really hope it is not him, I really hope it's not me. I don't want to be unexplained either.  I am the kind of person if I have an answer, I can live with it.  But if it is just "unexplained" then that leaves you with nothing to hold on to.


  1. I hope you get good results from his SA! I always feel for men in this process...I think it would be hard to have to do that! Diagnosis always feels like a lose-lose don't want him to have to problem, you don't want to have a problem, and the idea of having unexplained IF is hard because there's nothing to fix! Crossing my fingers for you...=)

  2. I hope you get some answers from his testing. I'm thinking of you both and hopefully you'll find some resolve or more info to plan your next steps.